“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t… you’re probably right.” —Henry Ford

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I look back and think, “If only I knew”

If only I knew that my lack of confidence was caused by me, 100%, and not by any coaches, teammates, or crazy fans.
If only I knew that I had 100% choice in how I responded to: adversity, tough coaching, losses, mistakes, and more.
If only I knew that most of my fears and time spent thinking of these fears were just to protect me from being uncomfortable and embarrassed… and that being uncomfortable actually means I am growing.
If only I knew that all we ever have is NOW. The past is over and the future isn’t guaranteed. Wow how this would have changed “bloody Tuesday” practice, film study, or just hanging out with teammates in the locker room.
If only I knew that you can’t win a game before it’s played… but you can darn sure lose one. The same is true for a presentation, interview, date, golf outing, and much more.
If only I knew that each moment describes who I am, and gives me the opportunity to decide if that’s who I want to be going forward.
If only I knew that not defining “success” for myself, and just following what others do, isn’t optimal. What if it was crystal clear what “success” meant for me in a game, a practice, a film session? Wow how different things could have been. How much more confident would I have been!
If only I knew that intentions are more powerful than expectations. And that by releasing expectations I’d find more joy in life.